The Verdict

It’s time for a new post..

 

So I want to discuss some things that have been going on lately. For anyone who knows me you know that I try to give people the benefit of the doubt. Everyone has their reasons for doing what they do. But something’s don’t make sense and should be stopped in the their tracks.

 

I’ve been broken up with my ex for over a year now, and I can honestly say I’m over it. I’ve made peace with the whole situation sleep very well knowing I did the right thing. But I’m guessing he doesn’t feel the same way. He called in the wee hours of the morning last week crying his eyes out about how he’s sorry for causing me so much pain and heartache. He wanted to know if I think about him and if I miss him. We I said oh ok in regards to him being sorry (yes, this clown is a sorry excuse for a man), but as far as missing him goes, no I don’t. He’s married now, and should be over the moon happy. But he admits that he’s not. I explained that I work every day and need my rest, so I hung up the phone and went to sleep. He called again on Sunday with the same crying but tried to throw the conversation into something sexual so I had to shut his DOWN! No sir, we won’t go there! You made your choice so deal with it.

 

My issue is that men have a bad habit of treating women who love and care for them badly. Finding another woman doesn’t change what you’ve done. Refusal to correct your problems doesn’t change it either. It’s best just try to make things right. Even if that means clearing the air with the person in your past and moving on, or trying to make that relationship work. Either way you will have peace. But I don’t understand the logic in jumping into a brand new relationship with someone else and creating more hurt feelings because you are mentally cheating on them.

 

Don’t have guilt to begin with. Do right by others. It makes it easy on your heart and on your future choices. You are able to go into relationships with a clear mind knowing you did the best you could.